Sleeping are tired toys.

 In my relative a granddaughter not want to sleep in an own bed on her 7 y.old, nobody cannot to affect, and though its a normal. Grandma shares,its a not to keep continuos, its not hygienically, affects on a granddaughter   .So as a mum enjoys your issue Form mum and grandmothers we are thought  ,that specialist answer will help to decide it. And cases are not rare with boys also having.Am met with these families. And children are there very small, and older are relatives for my grandchildren , problem is same, sleep with parents or grandma. Help please.

Sleeping are tired toys, books are sleeping.. Today  is also having a knowledge these words from a song..  A hearing song, children's are watching TV, to see a story, that knowing in her ending they are must to go to sleep, as  all orders ,like ritual, which signalizing for nerve system:organism going to sleep . And remember these words from a song, blankets, and pillows waiting children's.  And  no words, that they are not waiting parents, its a not simple, but lets by order!

Sleep is importance psycho-physiologic needing for a normal work an all organism ,and especial functional condition for a characterising lowering mobility activity, that  brain calm restoring and own ability to the analytical-synthetical work. For avoiding human s over loadings as on any age needing changing activity time  and sleep, as for opposite for wakefulness is also changing. And on the sleep muscles relaxing, lowering speed for mental processes and all organs functioning till a full force. And nerve system keeping working on staff   regime. When in sleep muscles getting rest , and organism restoring energy resources, in her under a managing head brain is happening cleaning is active process for tie and neutralization toxins, analyses for condition organs and removing failures .And its a most interesting a head brain cleaning self, scientists are confirmed, that  in a sleep a happening remembering all info with a day getting, forming a long time memory, fixing are new skills. 

For a brain good working with all goals , creating for his are favourable conditions, and its about for children's:

Fresh air, before sleep ventilate room for sleep.

Comfortable for sleeping temperature of air in room, on 23-25C, comfortable mattress, pillow, blanket, comfortable for body pyjama for sleep, full dark at room, and a most key is sleep needing doing at alone.

 And on the last point stopping detailed by, its process needing for sleep restoring, and for a keeping psychical health, what is it?

As in sleep our organism resting, when close to stay other person or sleeping, will not a be a full value resting , we are feeling somebody staying.

For babies a sleep in one bed with other will result to bad , mum will to crush a baby. And in older children's, a sleep with parents not restoring and forming private borders, and in future such children's are psychologically and psychically entering on a territory other person, that provoking conflicts. They are hard keeping rules for behaviours and norms in one case, other they are not ability to refuse when this is needing doing.   And without an own bed, a children  not feeling an own space, not allowing staying with own minds, not developing skills, and not receiving decisions. A such children will always put   responsibility on other, and in a future in all troubles will blame other, and will not know something new, and self to do something. But on first months a baby needing in mum closely, he satisfactions for his needs as safe and care. And if till a babies birth, a bedroom for sources has been an own space privately, but with a baby in a few families entering in norm. As a baby to sleep with parents, and all night in a bed s spouses , as between theirs, thus parents by psychically, and physically are staying far from each other, and marry will risk to break. Both are not ability restoring an own energy resources, and she self-controlling that not crush a baby.  .And modern parents before sleep not swaddle baby, thus he will a enter a part of a bed, creating additional discomfort for parents. Thus, on ideal parents to sleep in separate beds or rooms, that a much chance   to wake up a resting.