This is appearance calls spiritual orpranhood , are worring by teachers and doctors.

 And we are not imaginations all method for lost, which for children carry, but just in spiritual orphanhood, in poor contacts with parents is one reason for often child s depression. A worry causes children growing in family addicted, as drunks, conflicts, redness are staying life norm. And look of children from a prosperous family also. Mum is silence, hide nervousness or not hide, that keeping helping children for kindergarten  gathering, her look is empty, and after work drag his at home.As,   entered in own cares,  she is not hears, not listens, what he talked, not patience shake his for hand, but children is happy to look on car, cat, or plane flying. But,  not need to accuse tired mum, but advice to her , but its for half hours, later will cook dinner, add laundry, but stay with children by mentally, enter in his words, share with children his interests, smiles, pleasures. A lot of peoples looking on children ,like on being, as not ability to deep worries, but these children on preschool years are knowing   melancholy poignant and feels for humiliation, and ache for injustice and burning jealously. And parents here are  bewilderments , Peter are early received habits, that for right, used common table, speech is awesome , now asks to feed him from bottle with nipple, as avoided used toilet, as showed an own wish by babbles and whining .That regress for growing up  habits  is symptom for serious  psychical diseases, and here is showed in peter s despair, and a try to receive to him more attention. And to this process, in his family was born sister , on begin he watched for her very interested ho mum changed sheets, feed, tried helped, but mum every time answered not pester!Go in other room, play with toys! And he decided mum not loves him, that sister taken in his a mum. Need to say, that opposite situation, when children staying a centre for a not filled attention by adults, talking just with theirs , for damage in child s occupation  and interest also for him leading to psychical  stresses. And when he entered in kindergarten, or school, that a finding his not ability to talk with other children's. Children s collective not enjoy inequality, parent s darling, not affecting here habit preferences , he is true loosing, borders, suffers from these.

Dima, 7 y.old as ,like idol for other family members, since 5 y.old enjoying reading, created right phrases, met quests ,talked awesome, when he entered at school, parents are waited from teacher praises, but heard, that in his family a boy is very strange, lazy, angry, unsociable, strange.  Yes, he true hayed school, stayed lazy, on the morning felt sickness, headache had, paleness, self-indulgence, thus in result school neurosis said by doctor.